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on Monday, November 04, 2002 at 18:42:08, Wavejamin wrote: please,go here http://www.geocities.com/pnaidopness7o7/main.html Lost Faith How does one lose faith in our government and our courts system? Let me tell you a story about what is happening to me now. This is a story about a man who strives to be fair ,honest and most of all have a belief and trust in my God. A man wanting to live the American dream. Ever since I was at the age of 17, I worked so hard to be a provider. To do all the things I was raised and taught to do. Little did I know what my life had enstore for me. I married this women That is from Geneva county, ALDue to the constant incapatibility we got a divorce. Now during this time of marriage I was suppose to have fathered 3 children. Some few years had gone by and I went to the Urologist here in my town. As the doctor was giving me my examination he brought to my attention that I had a disease to the testicles. The doctor then went on to tell me that this disease strikes in puberty and can sterilizes a man. When the doctor told me this I said "How can this be, I’m suppose to have 3 children?"The doctor looked at me and said " YOU TELL ME". Needless to say I felt very betrayed and totally in shock. At this point I knew I had to have a semen test just to see if what the doctor Had said was true. Sure enough the test results came back and the doctor said QUOTE Doctor said YOU COULDNT GET A FLEA PREGNANT' UNQUOTE. Now with this information, I gave it a lot of thought. I felt I needed to know the truth. Searching my heart of hearts knowing this had to be done. SO I DECIDED I decided to call my x-wife, who fled to Alaska with the 3 kids, and ask her to have these test done(Under the advice of my first Lawyer). She screamed and yelled and said NEVER!! I dont know about you but doesn’t that mean automatic guilt? What would she have to hide if they were mine? Anyhow, She hung up the phone before saying I would never see the kids again. So now I was faced with retaining a lawyer to test myself and the kids. I hired an Attorney here in Houston County, Dothan Alabama, who I had total faith in, My first mistake. Court date finally came almost 2 years later in Geneva County. I finally felt I would get my test and know the truth. So I thought. My lawyer at the time presented my tests. I had concrete test, and letter stating from doctor that I would need medical help in order to (maybe ) Father a child. What do you think happened? Let me tell you. Judge said NO. Only if I could prove I was sterile at the time of conception. How could he say no when in 1988 congress passed a law mandating ALL states to provide paternity testing at the request of ANY party. example: SECTION 26-17A-1 saying: provides ,in pertent part upon petition of defendant in a Paternity proceeding where the defendant HAS BEEN DECLARED FATHER , the case can be reopened if there is scientific evidence presented by the defendant that his is not the father court shall admit into any. How could a judge be above the law? As I move on this women decides to have revenge on me and ruin my whole life. Well I have a family of my own to take care of and the courts are going to allow her to do this to me. So tell me, how does one lose faith? When the system fails more then it succeeds. I don’t feel I am getting treated fair. This is my x-wife’s town where every one Knows every one, and I have no chance at fairness. They wont let me move it out of Geneva County, so fairness is out of the question for me. The Alabama codes and sections say’s I have rights, but how can that be? There is no justice for me. If those children are not mine doesn’t that mean this women lied to the courts in our divorce? Doesn’t that mean she lied to me fooled me into believing the kids were mine? Isn’t that lieing under God? I just don’t get it. I would think the courts would want to stop the deceiving and uphold the law. Lets flip the coin a second. If a women became pregnant and pointed the finger and said a man was the father of her baby, What would happen? I'll tell you. He would be made to take a paternity test. So how is this diff. for me? I have proof that raises reason to believe of infidelity and lies. All I know as women they know they give birth for a man it’s a little different. Do I not have the right to know if those children are mine? Do not the children have a right to know? Doesn’t the real father have a right to know he has children? Have you ever heard of Dead Beat Dads? well ,what about those mothers? What about those mothers that deceive and break her vows under God ? It’s a shame even though we have somewhat of laws to help men like me they are not enforced. Can you see where the faith can just leave a mans heart? Are you proud to be an American? I used to be once. By Tim Daw from Alabama who will never see justice.. There is a crime out there and it is called Paternity Fraud. Most men feel ashamed facing the truth. But for me I have to know. Dont let this happen to your son or uncle or friend Thank you http:www.paternityfraud.com |